Elijah shook his head. "You are stretched too thin. You are so stressed over your work and keeping the house yourself. You do so much on your own, it isn't easy. That's why I wish you wouldn't mind having outside help. And it is alright, I am not here but I didn't know either until she fled. Accept outside help when you can, there is no shame in admitting it is a little hard to take care of a house full of kids alone. You have done your best to be strong for them and you are still trying to be so strong, but sometimes they need something a little gentler.."